Fetishizing the gear, over appreciating the actual output, is common to most hobbies. Whether it’s electronic music, photography, hiking/camping/rock climbing, painting, etc., it’s easy to spend hours reading about people’s setups and arguing over what is better or worse than what. I think it’s because making things is creative work, whereas discussing gear etc is mostly social bonding. The former arguably requires a little bit more effort and focus than the latter.
In the end, make stuff with what works for you. You can make beautiful music with a crappy guitar or a $10k of studio equipment; you can take beautiful pictures with a home made pinhole camera or a $5k fancy digital camera body with $20k or glass to go with it.
Find people who make things that resonate with you, no matter how they make it - and then maybe ask them about how they made it. But making the equipment the priority, rather than the work itself, feels like perhaps missing the point a little bit.
But then again, people should do what makes them happy. If buying/selling modules all the time and planning your eurorack is more fun for you than actually making music with it, who cares.