Here’s whats happening with the deconvolution stuff.

The green is the relative IR between the contact mic and the C214, with the black being the smoothed version of it.
The blue is the inversion of it, and the red is the gain-compensated inversion.
The output of that is then further convolved with a hipass filter to remove even more of the bass.
Here is what that looks like:

The red is the hipass filter, the green is the IR from the previous process, and the black is the convolution of both. All this really gets rid of is the boomy thumps when I do left foot presses, which the IR as originally inverted still leaves in.
And finally here is the difference between my previous k&k hotspot and my current one:

Subtle, but worth recreating.
(my C214 mic position might also not be exactly right, so that could explain some of the difference as well)