For me, this is part of the price of admission that a nonscripter should be cognizant of once jumping into the pool. If i want to enjoy the “fruits of their labor” in terms of scripting work, and creativity, I think it would be unfair of me to expect to get a “polished finished product” (which in this case I’m referring to the software, b/c I doubt anyone can argue with the monome physical products).
The decision as to whether a script is robust enough to “take it on stage” is and can only be made by the musician/user. But this is true even when someone takes a laptop running ableton or other software; that too will never be as “reliable” as an acoustic guitar, flute, xylophone etc.
For me, I get enough creative satisfaction that I’m ok with going along for the ride. The best example of this actually happened to me last week: I’d been planning a set for a show I had this past saturday, and a portion of it relied on using Compass script to capture parts of my live performance. Now, I;ve been having trouble matching signals levels out of my modular and into Norns and getting a consistently balanced result, so I was a bit weary of using it live. @Olivier and @Justmat had been taking about adding the ability to load prerecorded samples into compass, which would have made me feel a bit more safe, but they hadn’t done that by the time I had my show. So, I decided to use Compass live anyway. And it went great. And the next day they updated Compass script 
The point of my drawn out anecdote is that it illustrates what is unique and wonderful about this place/software/products/people. It’s true, one could look at my situation and say “what a subpar product it doesnt have all the functionality that I want”. My response would be though, that with no other product/community would I ever dream up something like Compass, and having access to it totally opened up new creative paths for me. Also, in what other place could I ask for a certain function in a product, and have a bunch of people work on it and make it come to light within a week…probably not many, at least none that I know of.
I’ll stop taking up space and just repeatedly say thanks to everyone here (if for no other reason than the fact that we’re having a civil conversation about this topic)