Wow, that is so kind of you! I think a big part of the problem was the solder iron, which I bought new but I think might be broken or otherwise defective. (Even at the highest temperature it would take roughly 10-15 seconds for the solder to start melting.) I bought a new one and am going to give it one more shot, if still no luck I would still so, so much appreciate your help! And would want to pay you at least something for it
I will DM you after I give it one more try, but thank you so much again for all the guidance!