thanks for this! unfortunately the behavior is still the same. i used “load” first and it told me the service was already loaded. unloaded and loaded again… same error message on connect.
in my own searching last night i came across this command
sudo lsof -PiTCP -sTCP:LISTEN
which did list my ports… but nothing in 9999. i used the network utility to try to see what’s connected to port 9999… and it came up blank.