I’m hoping that it’s okay to discuss some other LED characteristics in this thread. I’m trying to source LEDs locally, but offering is somewhat limited.
I found white 850mcd LEDs in 1206 case, however, Vf is specified to 3.2V in datasheet, while build doc at http://monome.org/docs/grid-kit/ says:
forward voltage (Vf): less than 3.2v. higher may work but is untested
And 3.2 is not less than 3.2, but rather is equal 
As for some other available LEDs, there is a lot of some russian LEDs of different collors that seems to match all recommendations from build doc, except millicandela rating. They usually rated at 250mcd, however some yellow go as low as 18mcd.
Does anyone have some recommendations? Should I go for 3.2V ones or will lower millicandela rating be bright enough?