i think a lot of your q’s will come more to use case scenario, which mixer device used. the one i have works for softer sides of feedback but begins, in an interwoven set of connections, to affect anything connected (ins and outs). feedback itself is often so volatile in nature that it is very hard to predict results without trying out the ideas with the given hard/soft setup.
so, i use my passive 3x3 matrix pretty when i want a simple dirty mixer when i need an funky mult or to otherwise inject some unexpected oddity into a patch. weird stuff happens, even turning up or down unconnected channels.
they are cheap and useful to have around but if you want repeatability and precision in the feedback i wouldn’t rec a passive matrix. if you like to add spice and have machines messing with your mind then a passive matrix will be fun.
the one i use is an old repeater elec 3x3, i can only imagine others may behave differently so ymmv.
i definitely say try one and see if it fits your feelings