Thanks for your answer, looks like I found the culprit (=me):
No, I first had the switch flipped to disk mode, then connected norns.
When I first connected norns, then flipped to disk mode, norns was recognized.
But the connection was quite fragile, it was lost when I moved norns (I was holding it in one hand and moved the switch with the other using a plastic toothpick). So unplug, back to run mode, replug, put norns on its side, then moved the switch while holding norns’s top side.
During flashing and verification I almost did not dare to breathe due to fear that any vibration might cause a lost connection…
It did click audibly.
When norns was not found, the light on its back did not light up at all, it did not show up in etcher, and did not show up in Finder.
Phew…I am so glad that this worked, but still sort of scared that the connection seems to be so fragile. Is this expected?
Update to 200604 also worked fine after the fresh install, no error messages, and now all scripts show up (not just a limited set, which was the case after I updated from 190405 to 200604 the other day).
Thanks much again!