The tip that comes with your iron is probably fine. I believe the Hakko 888 comes with this: https://www.amazon.com/Hakko-T18D16P-Fx-888-Station-1-6mm/dp/B004OR9BV4/ref=sr_1_1?s=industrial&ie=UTF8&qid=1532897136&sr=1-1&keywords=t18-d16+tip
If yours doesnāt, that would be a good tip. In general you want as big a tip as you can work with given the size of the components and the tightness of the space youāre soldering in. More surface area = more heat transfer = better soldering.
I was recommended Kester solder when I started and itās served me well: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00068IJPO/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
If you are also doing SMD work you might want a finer diameter solder in addition to something like the above.
I ordered this wick recently and itās been really good at soaking things up: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0195UVWJ8/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&th=1
If youāre new to soldering, I cannot emphasize enough the importance of keeping your tip clean. In addition to the sponge in your solder station, I recommend something like this: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00FZPGDLA/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Some people say that you should clean your tip after every join. I usually do every 2-5 joins depending on if there is a group of things Iām doing at once and Iām moving quickly, but you want to be cleaning often. Clean tip = heat transfer = good.
Good luck!