I appreciate the fresh angle at looking at musical activities. And I admit I’m definitely in the crowd of “habit-trackers”, striving and pushing - and buying self-help books on productivity, finishing stuff etc.
On the other hand, I can relate to feeling talentless. I could always sing in tune, but musicianship has never been easy. It took me years to learn to tune a guitar. And the intimidation of walking into guitar stores with kids younger than me playing Hendrix etc verbatim, well I have it tattooed under my skin.
Nevertheless, I think musical talent is something complicated to define. I think it can take many different forms. Some have an ear with perfect pitch, some have “muscular” gifts and some just have a creative approach open for discovery and ignoring “the rules”. And maybe most importantly, a childish joy for making small discoveries along the way.
Over the years I’ve come to the conclusion that the greatest gift/talent is to feel love and passion for something. My progress as a musician has been at snail speed. My younger brother learned everything instantly, could tell the chords from tune just by listening to it etc. Still, he never really knew what to do with it.
However we define talent or ambition, I think progress is inevitable. If you spend time doing something you will get better, or discover/learn something different. And everything you pick up can be a joy.
I was very fond of Jerry Saltz article in the Vulture “How to be an artist” – (I just ordered the book!). Not the least lesson 8: Redefine skill: " your skill will be whatever it is you’re doing differently."
You may not have a particular goal that you strive for, but if you choose to pick up an instrument instead of doing something passive, like watching tv. I think that choice and love is still some sort of talent. In my eyes at least.